John Stott on the the self we affirm and the self we deny

What we are (our self or personal identity) is partly the result of the Creation (the image of God), and partly the result of the fall (the image defaced).  The self we are to deny, disown, and crucify is our fallen self, everything within us that is incompatible with Jesus Christ (hence Christ's command, 'let him deny himself and follow me').  The self we are to affirm and value is our created self, everything within us that is compatible with Jesus Christ (hence his statement that if we lose ourselves by self-denial we shall find ourselves).  True self-denial (the denial of our false, fallen self) is not the road to self-destruction, but the road to self-discovery.   So, then, whatever we are by creation, we must affirm: our rationality, our sense of moral obligation, our masculinity and femininity, our aesthetic appreciation and artistic creativity, our stewardship of the fruitful earth, our hunger for love and community, our sense of the transcendent mystery of God, and our inbuilt urge to fall down and worship him.  All this is part of our created humanness.  True, it has all been tainted and twisted by sin.  Yet Christ came to redeem and not destroy it.  So we must affirm it.   But whatever we are by the fall, we must deny or repudiate: our irrationality; our moral perversity; our loss of sexual distinctives; our fascination with the ugly; our lazy refusal to develop God's gifts; our pollution and spoliation of the environment; our selfishness, malice, individualism, and revenge, which are destructive of human community; our proud autonomy; and our idolatrous refusal to worship God.  All this is part of our fallen humanness.  Christ came not to redeem this but to destroy it.  So we must deny it. John Stott